Can You Give You Woman A Deeper Orgasm? Author: Jerry Leung As a man, you will probably want to learn more ways to give your lady deeper orgasms. Yet, the fact is that no many people can really do that. In fact, there are some methods you can use in order to give your lady a deeper orgasm. Here are some tips for you to do so. At this point, some of the readers may wonder why a man needs to give his woman deeper orgasms. It is probably because a perfect sex relationship can actually help to reinforce a relationship. However, this is out of the scope of this article and we will not discuss about this in detail. So, what should you do in order to give your woman a deeper orgasm? Without any surprise, the first thing you need to pay attention to is the foreplay. I bet everyone of us knows the importance of foreplay. However, not many of us will really pay attention to this important step. When you are having your foreplay, you should do everything slowly. You should never be in a hurry when you are having your foreplay. You can kiss every inch of her body. As a matter of fact, kissing is one of the most important parts in your foreplay. If you can really pay attention to your foreplay, you will find that you can arouse her gradually. Words are also very important. You should try to tell your lady how sexy she is when you are having intimate relationship with her. Remember, women are much more emotional than men in most cases and this is why this kind of words will work! You may also tell here how much you love her. All of these words are very important and this will certainly make your lady feel more comfortable. It is also very important for you to hold her hand from time to time when you are having intimate relationship with her. This will give her a sense of security and she will probably feel more relaxed. One final thing that should be mentioned is that you should try to explore the body of your lady. It is very important since you need to understand the body of your woman. You will know which parts of her are more sensitive and you will find it a lot more effective to stimulate her if you know the right places. This will certainly help to give your lady a deeper orgasm!
How to Reach the Female G-Spot ? Author: Jerry Leung   G-spot is one of the most popular issues on different books and websites on making love and sex. In fact, it is named after the German gynecologist Ernst Grafenberg. This gynecologist is the first one who described this small area behind the pubic bone. So why is this area so popular? It is because it can help to intensify orgasm of women. In fact, men will try to stimulate this area in order to help females to have a more intense orgasm. However, this is not the most curious part of men. In fact, the most curious part is that there are experiences and saying that female ejaculation will be made possible by stimulating the G-Spot. And as a result a lot of books and websites on sex and love making are promoting the techniques to stimulate G-Spot. It is somehow become a miracle for men who cannot satisfy their women. Physically, some experts believe that the G-spot is an area with nerves that serve the clitoris pass on their way to the connection point in the spinal column. On the other hand, there are also experts saying that it should be an area which help in the final phase of childbirth. These experts claim that the G-spot is stimulate before childbirth so that the vagina walls can execute a strong contraction and this will help eventually to push the baby out of the vagina. At this point, you may understand that there is still no single conclusion about the function of the G-spot. To a man, the most important issues may not be how the spot is evolved or the actual function of it. The main concern of men may probably be how to stimulate the G-Spot in order to give female a more intense orgasm. You can indeed do it by using the penis. To stimulate the G-Spot using the penis, men should position their penis for a thrust that is opposite to clitoris stimulation. In fact, the natural upward curved shape of the penis can already help to stimulate the G-Spot. On the contrary, if you penis is of downward curved shape, doggy style will be perfect to stimulate the spot. It is also possible to stimulate the spot using your fingers. The exact position of the G-spot is about 75mm away from the opening of the vagina. Besides, research also showing that it will be easier to reach the G-Spot for a woman after 30 years old. So, if you would like to fully satisfy your lady, do not want and try to explore the myth of G-spot with her. Permalink
Exploring the Techniques of Kissing Author: Jerry Leung | Kissing is a good way to communicate with your lady. You can tell her without words that you are interested in and love her. You can always learn new technique of kissing her and she will be impressed because she will have an impression that you are taking the time learn to make her feel great. You can peck her before going to the bed. When pecking her, you should try to look into her eyes. You can also run your fingers through her hair. Remember to tell her she is your most beloved one. I can tell you that she will be happy with this. Kiss her when you are leaving home for work. Again, you should tell her you love her when you are kissing her. And it does not need to be a strong and long kiss. A peck will be very fine. You should also tell her you will be missing her when you are at work. Looking at her eyes is very essential. You can also see if she is ready for more intimate actions by kissing her. You can kiss her slowly and if she wants more, it may probably imply that she would like to move to next step! Of course you should not hurry even if there are signs that she wants more. You have to keep it slow and long so that you can arouse her desire. You can see that kissing is really a good way to communicate with her. Kissing is just as important as the actual intercourse. Of course kissing does not necessarily mean having sex. But you can certainly test if she wants to have it or not by kissing her. If you can kiss her in a proper way, it is also highly probably that you can turn her on and arouse her desire. You may still kiss her if you would just want to show your love to her. She will feel warm and happy if she knows you really care about her when you are kissing her. You can kiss her as part of the foreplay. On the other hand, you may also do that just because you love her. But they can have similar effects. She will return to you! She will love the feeling of having your lips on hers. And you should remember that there is nothing as too many kisses in our lives.   Permalink
Why Can’t She Climax? Author: Sandra Prior Back in cave days, Ancient Greece and even the pre-feminist fifties, a woman’s orgasm was a purely incidental part of sex. Those were simple times to a man. But no longer. Now she knows her rights. She’s read the Kama Sutra and Cosmo’s sealed sex supplement. She’s probably even seen Paris Hilton’s skin flick on the Net. The results: she wants – no, expects – the biggest orgasm possible. Or seven, if you can manage it. And you might as well admit it: you get off on her getting off. Knowing that you’re responsible for that quivering, shivering expulsion of sensation is the second best thing about sex. It’s a ride in a sports car. It’s a hole in one. So what happens if she just can’t climax? What if you’ve exhausted your box of erotic tricks and she’s still lying there, passionless and poker faced? Well, once in a while it’s totally understandable. Once a week it’s probably forgivable. But if she comes less often than you have your car washed (and we know that is hardly ever), you’ve got problems. When sex works, it takes up about 20% of a relationship. But when it doesn’t, it takes up about 90%. This is because bad sex seldom stays in the bedroom. If she can’t have an orgasm, he’ll probably start to feel that he’s not a good lover. Meanwhile, she’s thinking something’s wrong with her. At first both will try harder, which only creates more pressure and makes the problem worse. Then their egos become bruised and they start to withdraw from each other. The result: drought. A dry and destructive avoidance, not only of sex, but of any intimacy that may lead to dreaded carnal carnage. There is some reassuring news in all of this: the lack of female orgasm is more common than you think. And there are ways to coax it out of hiding. Research shows that about 30% of women globally live with pre-orgasmia, which means they’ve never experienced an orgasm. That means one in three women out there don’t know what they’re missing. Then another 30% of women are situationally pre-orgasmic, meaning they only have orgasms in certain situations, for example, when masturbating or when they feel safe and happy with their partner. Lastly about 30% of women have orgasms some of the time. Who knew? Whether they’re faking it or just lying back and taking it, a disturbing number of women are flatlining after foreplay. And though there may be safety in numbers, this fact still sucks. The big question is: who is to blame? Poor technique by men is a major inhibiting factor. Especially men who think they know what to do, who believe orgasms happen with pounding penetration only, who don’t listen to their women and who don’t spend enough time arousing her in ways that she uniquely appreciates. Plus, if he puts her under enormous pressure to orgasm, this can inhibit her too. This can’t be his fault entirely. If the woman has never masturbated herself to orgasm, then not only will she struggle to climax, she’ll struggle to teach her partner to take her there too. She may also be unable to let go and surrender to orgasm due to a negative body image, low sexual confidence, or lack of trust in the relationship. Or she could fear pregnancy or sexually transmitted infections. Maybe she’s on medication or anti-depressants, that inhibit orgasm. Religious upbringing, family attitudes and sexual experiences all play a role. If you grow up with the idea that genitals are dirty and sex is sinful, or purely for your husband’s pleasure, it impacts on your ability to have an orgasm. One of the most powerful preventative beliefs is that good girls don’t do that. Okay, so coming is more complicated that we thought. But what’s a guy to do when his ego’s smarting and his manhood’s slowly withering in the desert of his bed? Well, he adjusts his attitude. Don’t blame her and don’t blame yourself. And however tempting it is to prove your sexual dexterity, don’t tell her that you could give your last lover five orgasms in five minutes. The idea is to make her feel better about herself, not you. Talk You may have to help her help you. This means talking about the sex you have. Try to ask the right questions at the right time. During intimate moments, encourage her to guide you around her body. Seek out her Buttons Every woman has a unique set of buttons that will lead to her undoing. Study her and don’t rely on tried and tested tricks you learnt in another woman’s bed. Watch her carefully while you making love. See how her facial ex-pression changes. Watch the color deepen on her face, body and vulva. Her breathing will become shallower and she may even scream. Allow her to build to this pitch, and let her see you’re noticing her excitement. Talk to her, but first discover what kind of talk she enjoys, or if she needs silence. Stop Trying so Hard Pressure is the biggest passion killer, so if she’s struggling to climax a goal oriented mind set will only make things worse. If the aim is to achieve orgasm every time, frustration and insecurity mount. Just let your bodies relax and enjoy the moment and take orgasm out of the equation. Over time, this attitude together with good communication, will encourage her body to respond differently and allow orgasm to happen. Stop going for goals and just play with her. Find out what makes her tick – and you can explode her.   Permalink